Of all the candles in the Hanukkiah, the one that usually gets the
least respect is the shamash. The
original meaning of the word, shamash,
is attendant, servant, janitor, caretaker or orderly. The shamash is the candle that kindles all of the other Hanukkah
candles but is not counted toward the eight days of Hanukkah. Yet, without the shamash none of the other candles could be lit, since each of these
other candles, according to Jewish law, cannot be used for any purpose other
than providing their Hanukkah light. So what can we learn from the “servant”
candle? - That no matter a person’s job, they should be treated with respect
and dignity, since without their hard work most of the things we take for
granted could not be fulfilled. Indeed
the Rabbis realizing this lesson required that the lowly shamash, be given a place of honor either higher than the other
candles, or set to the side from the other candles.
Yet, all too often the people in
these roles become “invisible people.”
People that while they are serving, helping, cleaning, working behind
the scenes or literally right in front of us are simply looked past, and ignored. From cashiers, sandwich makers, toll
collectors, nurses, maintenance people, hotel staff, etc. It is amazing to see
the smile on a persons face when they are simply thanked or wished a great day.
For someone to acknowledge that the work they do is valued and appreciated but
even more that they are human beings worthy of respect, kindness, and dignity.
On Hanukkah, we all can remember the efforts of the many different people, big and small, throughout the year, whose hard work and efforts make our world and our lives better. Hanukkah Sameach! May the Festival of Lights fill your home with warmth, cheer, and love and may we all be privileged to share it with those around us.
